I will confess, I had never even heard of Charlie Kirk.
I live in a fairly small, exceedingly liberal college town. I said to my wife long ago that if I were the most enthusiastic Trump supporter on the planet, there would be no Trump signs in my yard or Trump bumper stickers on my car. It simply wouldn't be safe. I don't suppose I'd be shot, but I guarantee you my car wouldn't be safe.
Now that I've read some of Kirk's views - many of which I might agree with in a less incendiary way - if I were him I don't think I would have appeared at open-air events even with an (ineffective) bulletproof vest. Did he "deserve what he got"? No, of course not. Was he taking an extreme risk in today's political climate? Absolutely.
I happen to listen to a lot of Christian talk radio (much of which I can't stand!). Good Lord, on these shows Kirk is a saint, a Christian martyr, the voice of sanity and reason who would surely have been President some day. Some of the hosts literally can't get through their shows without sobbing. Sorry, but much of what I have read places Kirk as the rightwing counterpart to some of the most incendiary Lefties. If you're going to say those sorts of things in that sort of language in today's world, you are taking an extreme risk.
Crazily, my best friend is an absolutely foaming-at-the-mouth Trump hater. I sent him an email this morning, asking if he'd ever heard of Kirk. What he sent back managed to turn the entire incident into Trump's fault, as though the leftwing wacko with a rifle wasn't even part of the equation. His logic must be that young Tyler was just acting out what most sane people are thinking anyway.
It really seems quite hopeless to me. Kirk's death isn't going to "bring us together," make anyone think things have finally gone too far. As long as these extremists on both sides think their extreme views and incendiary rhetoric is "normal" and "reasonable," nothing will change and things will only get worse. You are only "normal" and "reasonable" if you capitulate to their views; there is no in-between. Trump is a lightning rod, of course, but the issues are far deeper than him.
It's a genuine war. I have a number of friends in the same age range who have the same perspective that I have: Thank God I'm 75 and don't have to worry about what the country or the world will look like 25 or 50 years from now. Just let me lay low and get through the remainder of life before the sh*t really hits the fan. The way things are going, I fear the sh*t may hit the fan well within my lifetime. It's becoming almost ... biblical.